About the things I should have know about my skin imperfections and what I have learned.
When I was younger, I had a motorcycle accident. It left me with scars and I didn’t know enough about scars and life at that time. Here are five truths from a girl who learned from having them:
- If it is pink, cover it. I meant it; even when the crust is off, it can take a whole year to be fully healed. Rule of thumb, if it itches, it is still not it. A bandage, a cap and even a long-sleeved linen shirt/pants offer great coverage!
- If it is skin colour, put sunscreen on it. Applying sunscreen not only prevents sunburn but also protects these areas from UV damage. Choose a broad-spectrum sunscreen with at least SPF 30 and reapply it every two hours or after swimming. Taking care of your skin is a priority.
- In any occasion, it is understandable to feel intimidated. I know you feel self-conscious for having skin imperfections like scars, acne, or stretch marks. Remember, everyone has something they’re insecure about. Your skin is just part of you and it is not defining you.
- When dating someone new, if you feel you should hide them, a second rendez-vous is not recommended. Those feelings are early signs and you should trust your guts; if it doesn’t feel right at the beginning, you won’t feel right later. My to-date partner never mentioned them and I don’t give my scars any importance as a consequence.
- Hydrate your skin and yourself. A good hydrating lotion and enough water can go a long way.
- Find a good dermatologist and explore options with them. Too often, we want things to get things “fixed and fast”. It can be a whole process and make sure that your dermatologist knows how to guide you through it.